Do you ever feel pressure to “perform” rather than simply enjoy intimacy?

What does success mean to you?

Do you ever feel like you have to keep it together, no matter what?

Do you have a hard time telling the people in your life that you love them?

Do you often say yes when you really want to say no?
Do you feel responsible for other people’s happiness, even at your own expense?
Do you struggle with guilt when setting boundaries?

Do you feel pressure to “perform” perfectly every time?
Do you worry about disappointing your partner or not being “enough”?

Have you ever felt guilt or embarrassment about your desires, performance, or body?

Do you worry that one day, people will “find out” you’re not as capable as they think?

Do you struggle with self-doubt, second-guess your decisions, or find it hard to trust others—even yourself?

Have you ever wondered if a small, gradual change might be enough—or if a complete break is the only way forward?

In this blog, we explore how machismo is more than physical strength or taking charge—it’s a cultural phenomenon with deep historical roots. In many societies, being a “real man” is tied to dominance and control. While these traits can foster leadership or protectiveness, they can also become stifling if there’s no room for vulnerability.

Fear is universal, but we rarely talk about it—especially men, who are taught to hide it. Instead of ignoring fear, we can learn to use it as fuel. With the right mindset, fear can become a powerful motivator.